If you look at my phone on any given day, you will always notice a handful of misses calls and unanswered messages. I am not actively trying to ghost any of these messages- rather they are sent by close friends and family. Now, you might think that I must be a really bad friend with bad communication skills. And to that, I have to admit you are absolutely correct: It is pretty shitty of me to leave people hanging and choosing to ignore them indefinitely. Now your follow-up question may be, “you seem pretty self-aware of this trait, so why do you continue it?” And, in a desperate attempt to fix this toxic behaviour, I…